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This can be a discussion on concerns regarding INFP closest friend (opposite gender) in the INFP Forum – The Idealists discussion boards, area of the NF’s Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; we’m an INTJ man. Perchance you dudes may help me realize my feminine INFP friend that is best better. I would ike to first.

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Concerns regarding INFP best friend (other intercourse). We’m an INTJ man. Perhaps you dudes may help me realize my feminine INFP closest friend better.

Allow me first say that I favor her dearly as my pal. Her character fits David Keirsey’s INFP description nearly towards the page. Once I first came across her, 9 years back, i did not realize about character types but I felt that her brain had an excellent warmth and deepness, that she could share thoughts by having an strength that we hadn’t believed before but that her irrationality might make me get crazy. Even with 9 years she actually is still a large, wonderful secret for me and unravelling its secrets will probably be a job for the others of my entire life. If I do not get pea pea pea nuts before that. BTW before anyone asks the reason WE failed to become a couple of, we currently was at an LTR once I came across her and I also’m nevertheless within the same LTR whilst still being pleased with it. Therefore also though we’d a serious crush for each other a long time ago our company is close friends and that is that.

Within the 9 years i have known her she’s got dropped deeply in love with (or has received a crush that is severe) 8 various dudes. A few of them weren’t available (including myself), along with the rest she has had relationships that lasted from two months to at least one 1/2 years. Nearly every time she fell so in love with someone she said just how this perthereforen can be so special and differing from most of the remainder and just how she seems as for many years etc if she would already know him. She was constantly utterly and totally in love and place this option (often IMO guys that are rather average. To place it averagely) on a pedestal. But following a relationship is finished (regardless of it or the guy) she’s always belittling the importance of this relationship to her if she ended. She is saying such things as “we did not just just just take this relationship extremely severe anyway. ” Okay, i realize it really is a protection device but it is found by me it. Dare I use the expressed term in this forum. “naive” to ALWAYS fall under exactly the same trap, to praise some guy as if he had been the major passion for her life after once you understand him for 6 days after which putting him down when he split up along m flirt4free with her a couple of months later on. Additionally we wonder why she does not appear to feel “ashamed” at all to at first constantly speak about this option as though these were send straight down from paradise and merely a weeks/months that are few utilize the “he was not that great anyhow” routine. Is this typical for INFPs?

What about you dudes?

Would you additionally fall in love therefore easily? Can you also feel EACH AND EVERY TIME that this time around it is the big passion for your life?

Do not you are feeling ridiculous as a result of it following the fifth or 6th time? Do not you begin to become more cautious at first of the relationship? Can you additionally constantly belittle your emotions following the relationship is finished?

And yet another thing: might you additionally imagine being madly in deep love with somebody as well as the time that is same an extremely close, instead intimate (but non-sexual) relationship with someone through the reverse sex (or of the identical intercourse if you are homosexual)? Often it appears become very puzzling to her, this has produced plenty of psychological turbulences through the years and we also’ve had times when certainly one of us or both required some distance but that never lasted longer when compared to a or two week.